STROKE DOES NOT DISCRIMINATE BY AGE...


Stroke survivor 15-year old Lee Yong Xian

On June 29, 2017, a day before his 14th birthday, Lee Yong Xian was dealt a cruel blow. He was at home trying to reach out for his mobile phone which was on a table nearby, when his right arm went weak. His first thought was it was just numbness or maybe due to tiredness. But minutes later when he tried again…he still could not get it to do what he wanted – which was to reach out and pick up the phone.

Next he tried calling out to his cousin for help. This time he noticed that he had difficulty in mouthing the words. No sound came out of him. At this point he sensed something was very wrong so he decided to look for his older brother who was upstairs. He made it to the stairs and managed to climb some steps before falling down. On hearing a commotion, his brother rushed down, carried him downstairs and phoned their mother.

A frantic mother, Tew Kat Yee, rushed back from work and took her son to the nearest hospital. In the car, he had a bout of vomiting and eventually lost consciousness. In the hospital he was diagnosed as having a haemorrhagic stroke and the doctor advised the family to allow for an emergency operation. He underwent surgery about five hours after being admitted.

Yong Xian regained consciousness four days after surgery. He was in ICU and when told he had had a stroke he was totally unaware of what to expect. He just assumed the worst was over and that he would get well soon. He didn’t dwell much on the fact that he couldn’t move his right limbs or speak. He accepted what had happened and remained light-hearted and positive about his recovery.

His mother stayed in the hospital and looked after him while his 60-year old grandmother looked after the home and his two younger brothers. After a week he moved into a normal ward, and was discharged two weeks later. Yong Xian left the hospital in a wheelchair and was dependent on his family members to care for him. His father, who was working in Singapore, returned every weekend to help out.

Mother and son getting ready for school after a six month break
Yong Xian with his mother and brothers

Before his brain attack this young teen, a Form One student of SMK Semambu, had no health issues. His day began at 5am with breakfast, after which he was off to school. When he returned about 3pm he would have some food, bathe and then set off on his bicycle to his friend’s house for a chat and play board or phone games, basketball or badminton. He usually returned home by 6pm for dinner and rest or would attend tuition classes. His interests then were drawing, basketball and watching Japanese animation on TV.

Two months after his discharge from hospital Yong Xian began rehab at NASAM Kuantan. He recalls his first session: “I was feeling very nervous as I didn’t know what to expect. By then I had been off school for two months and was not in contact with any other people other than my family members and was still in a wheelchair. I could not speak very well. It took a while for the words to come out of me.

Therapist customised a rehabilitation programme to speed up recovery.
Stair climbing to strengthen his muscles & improve balance & coordination.
“NASAM was recommended by my acupuncturist. My aunt and grandma accompanied me on my first day which gave me some strength. We were met by therapist Chan Mak Wan who assessed me and recommended one-on-one therapy. I began my session at NASAM on September 6, 2017, three months after my stroke. After my rehab I would go home and feel so tired that I needed to rest. Later I practiced my exercises at home. Luckily for me my speech improved with more practice.

“One month after starting rehab at NASAM I could stand up, and two months later I could walk using a quadripod. At home I could manage without this walking aid but used it when going out to prevent other people from walking into me.”

By then Yong Xian could use his left hand expertly. With that one hand he could play games on his mobile phone and soon after was able to draw and write too. He so enjoyed drawing that he volunteered for the Kuantan 2019 calendar project and lent his creative talent to decorate the word LOVE. He accompanied the drawing with: “Who would believe I had a brain attack when I was 14. But it did happen and I was unable to attend school for six months…”

Yong Xian returned to his school on January 2, 2018. He joined his friends in Form Two and is thankful that the school did not make him repeat a class despite his long absence.

When asked who played a key role in his recovery, Yong Xian was quick to add that it was his family. He remains thankful to his parents, grandma and three brothers. He is also grateful to his friends who motivated him during his recovery by helping to carry his school bag, assisting him with his homework, encouraging him to exercise and playing or going out with him. Though he is now able to go out with his friends some times, he regrets being unable to hop on his bike at a whim and join them in play as he used to before.

In 2019 he will be in Form Three. He is happy to adopt a slower pace and remains motivated by a desire to go to Japan to further his studies as a comic artist. “I am confident about the possibilities that await me in the future and am willing to change to take up a challenge that will be to my benefit,” says the optimistic and hopeful teenager.

Yong Xian’s message to other young people recovering from a stroke is: “Do not give up.

Hard work will pay off.” And to their families he says: “Your encouragement is very important to the stroke survivor.”
Yong Xian seen here with classmate Kee Kai Jie.
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Friendships remained strong despite the stroke.
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The Lee’s believe in working together towards stroke recovery. The Family seen here after a fun Walk 4 Health event.

Strokenews (Issue 4, December 2018), Pgs. 3 – 6